Practical, research-based coaching for couples who feel distant, overwhelmed, and close to giving up - so you can feel like a team again
From Roommates Back to Lovers
- Stop escalation fast with simple de-escalation steps—so fights don’t turn loud, cold, or hurtful
- Break your “same fight” pattern by identifying triggers + meanings – so you finally solve the real issue
- Rebuild closeness and attraction with daily connection habits—so you stop feeling like roommates.
- Create a clear relationship plan (strengths, challenges, next steps)—so you both feel hope and direction again
The Triangle of a Fulfilling, Real Relationship
How to fight less and feel closer - especially after baby
Friendship & Intimacy
You rebuild emotional closeness, trust, and genuine friendship—the foundation that helps you feel like a couple again, not just co-parents.
This reduces distance and “we’re just functioning” mode, and brings back warmth, affection, and connection.
Conflict Management
You learn to de-escalate fights, spot triggers early, and handle hard conversations without attacking or shutting down.
The result: fewer blowups, more emotional safety, and the feeling that you’re on the same team—even under stress.
Shared Meaning
You create a shared “why” through values, rituals, goals, and a clear family vision.
This builds long-term commitment and purpose, so your relationship feels fulfilling again instead of getting lost in daily chaos.
Who is this for?
This coaching is for couples who feel like roommates, keep escalating into the same fights, and fear their relationship is drifting toward separation or divorce. It’s especially for couples under high stress – often new parents – who want practical, research-based tools to rebuild connection, intimacy, and teamwork.
Couples who feel like roommates, have lost the spark and are just "functioning"
Couples who fight a lot, get loud, and struggle to de-escalate
Let's meet and start your journey
Helping you through research-based coaching in the three relationship areas
1. Get to know each other
Book yourself a free 20 min appointment. In this session we get to know each other better and look if it’s a fit for both.
2. Three Assessment sessions
If it is a fit and I can help you, we will arrange 3 additional sessions to get a deep and profound overview where you are in your relationship.
3. Learning and Training
After the three sessions, you know where your strength and challenges are and you get a great feeling how I work. Now you can decide if you want to work with me effective on these specific topics through the next weeks/months.
1. Get to know each other
Book yourself a free 20 min appointment. In this session we get to know each other better and look if it’s a fit for both.
2. Three Assessment sessions
If it is a fit and I can help you, we will arrange three additional sessions to get a deep and profound overview where you are in your relationship.
3. Learning and Training
After the three sessions, you know where your strength and challenges are and you get a great feeling how I work. Now you can decide if you want to work with me effective on these specific topics through the next weeks/months.
That's me
The one who is working with you
Hi, my name is Timon and welcome to my page!
Happy to see you here.
My goal is it to create happy, fulfilled and strong families. Because this is the root for a wonderful and happy childhood. The kids of today are the parents of tomorrow.
When I see into this world, I feel like a lot is going wrong with relationships these days. Thats why I started with everything. Thats why I left my corporate job, which I was pretty good to be honest and went deep into the unknown.
I want to help you based on research and my experience that you reignite the flame in your relationship with your partner.
So I’m glad to see you soon!
And for the ones who need some data:
- Completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (The Gottman Institute)
- Spent over 815 days on working directly day by day on the relationship on my parents
- Over 45.000 € spent on my own education and personal growth
- Visited and executed since 2015 dozens of seminars, courses, programs, mentorings, books about relationship and life in general
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